In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about LOVE: DO NOT EXPECT FUTURE AND PERFECTION. I really have to thank to a person who are teaching this precious lesson to me. Although its not physically teaching me, but from other view of angle, i get the message. Thanks a lot.

Why i said so. When we expect future in a relationship, instead of prolong the relationship, we are destroying the relationship. Once we expect future, we will give a lot of commitment, we will give a lot of pressure to that person we love and so on! Besides that, once we expect future in the particular relationship, we will sometimes forgot, ignore and not appreciate when we're together with that person. Sooner or later, it will end up with nothing.

Love and business is totally different stuff. Business require FULL of control of it to maximize profit. But love, please don't intent to control it or control that person. Because the person is NOT belongs to you although he/she is in relationship with you. if we want control, please control ourself, not others. If we want manage, MANAGE ourself.

We only give commitment to that person unless he or she is engaged or married with you. If before that, if you don't have the effort to do so, please don't give any commitment. If you have the effort also, PLEASE DON'T SAID SO. Appreciate when the happiness period together.

Marriage is not an easy task, marriage is not a game. Its require mature mental attitude and character. And also financial independent. Marriage require heavily commitment.

In this universe, everything in life has a certain natural rhythm or vibration. We cannot force something to formed what our mind thought of. You are you, me is me, what our mind thought of is not same what they are think about. So anything future about your relationship, please leave it to god. Let's god judge for you. Don't intent to do change it or force it yourself. Still the same word: If he/she not belongs to you, no matter how much effort we put in, its still not yours.

In conclusion, i can sum up a word for a happy relationship: UTAR

mutual U-nderstandinng
mutual T-rust
               AND
mutual R-espect

So please, don't expect future of your relationship. Adverse, we should appreciate what have go through and the precious time when together, try to do the best to understanding he/she more.

真的好久好久没有写了，终于都能上网了！可能是最近住KL的关系吧，所以比较忙，忙到我不知道怎样说，但我知道是值得的！那件事，也就这样过了好像要一个月多了。哎，过去就过去了，何必再提呢？哭也哭过了，伤心也伤心过了，再想再问也不是办法吧！不是你的，就不是你的。是你的，再远都会回来！就做回单身贵族吧。其实一直以来，我也是过着单身的生活，跟之前没有改变过。shopping我自己一个，看戏也是我自己一个，不管做什么，也是我自己一个！

坦白说，其他的东西，我根本没有时间去想，加上澳洲市场也开始了，根本不能停。每一个部门的团队，都需要我！神啊，我需要一天多点时间！请你给我一天有40个小时好吗?是不可能的，上天是公平的！每一个人是只有24小时，是看我们会不会去分配和策划而已。时间不留人，好好利用，不要等到过了才后悔，时间的惩罚是最严重的，也是最伤的！所以，不管做什么都好，都要趁早！

看到很多朋友们的blog和fb status，全部都是很emo！为何呢？有些有了另一半，还是那么emo。有些在一起了的，也是那么emo。有些单身的，也是那么的emo。哎哟， 朋友，做么要这么emo叻？但是也不能怪他们，因为我了解你们的心情，我也是过来人。但朋友，看开点啦！人生是应该充满希望，充满阳光才对啊！

难道你们的生活要每天都是天黑黑要下雨的吗？不是这样的。笑一笑，没烦恼！一切更美好！有句话说，每一个成功男人的背后，总有一个不平凡的女人！何时这个女人会出现呢？这个问题，我不再去想了！单身做成功它，然后再慢慢想吧！

"In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on." So everything which is pass, just let it go...because your life is still goes on!!! Go Crown Ambassador...

I remember what you wore on the first day
You came into my life and I thought
"Hey, you know, this could be something"
'Cause everything you do and words you say
You know that it all takes my breath away
And now I'm left with nothing

I remember every look upon your face
The way you roll your eyes
The way you taste
You make it hard for breathing
'Cause when I close my eyes and drift away
I think of you and everything's okay
I'm finally now believing
I remember what you wore on the first day
You came into my life and I thought, "Hey,"

That maybe it's true
That I can't live without you
And maybe two is better than one
But there's so much time
To figure out the rest of my life
And you've already got me coming undone
And I'm thinking two is better than one

I can't live without you
'Cause, baby, two is better than one
But there's so much time
To figure out the rest of my life
But I'll figure it out
When all is said and done
TWO, IS BETTER THAN ONE...I LOVE YOU

Value …

To realize the value of ten years: Ask a newly Divorced couple.

To realize the value of four years: Ask a graduate.

To realize the value of one year: Ask a student who Has failed a final exam.

To realize the value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a still born.

To realize the value of one month: Ask a mother who has given birth to A premature baby.

To realize the value of one week: Ask an editor of a weekly newspaper.

To realize the value of one hour: Ask the lovers who are waiting to Meet.

To realize the value of one minute: Ask a person Who has missed the train, bus or plane.

To realize the value of one-second: Ask a person Who has survived an accident…

To realize the value of one millisecond: Ask the person who has won a silver medal in the Olympics

Time waits for no one. Treasure every moment you have.